the uglier the snapchat, the closer the friendship
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College: Freshman Year, the End
The first chapter of my college life has come to a bittersweet end. Bitter because I miss my foreign exchange roommate from Korea, and leaving my dorm forever, and sweet because I get to finally be away from all this stress and the thoughts of school for 3 months !! (not really, but yea I am away from here). Freshman year at CSULB was amazing. I wish I can think of better words, but I can’t! Not after using my brain for Chem (which by the way I’m doneeeeeeee). Freshmen year….what can I say. It was freedom, it was passionate, it was amazing, awesome, fun, adventurous, loving. From falling in and out of love, to making new friendships and meeting new people, to falling more in love with God and growing in relationship to Him, to sleepless nights from studying, to college midterms and finals, to freedom of midnight snacking and playing, to letters, to rants, to everything….it was just great. I love college. I love this new life, the many adventures. Most of all was the people I was surrounded by. Old friends still remained, but new friends came and stayed. I’m thankful to each and every person I met and I will never regret meeting each and every single person, because they are all beautiful, caring, loving, fun, passionate, and influential. I kind of want to cry because I don’t want to be away from these new people, and want to cry because I loved being at this dorm and the many memories I made here. But, I’ll still see my new friends when I commute, and keep in touch! <3 Summer of 2013, I’m ready for you. Thank you Lord and thank you LB for allowing me to leave this semester with happiness and many many memories! (The only thing I regret is not studying enough, but that’s the past!)
P.S., The last sentence sounds like I’m graduating. I’m not! But I am very happy ^___^
Sometimes people have a hard time understanding what a happy relationship between two people who obvs think the other is awesome looks like.
We think this is one great (and holy bananas, so freaking hilarious) example.
YOU ALL BETTER FUCKING WATCH THIS
THIS IS GREAT. OMG.
so cute hahahahha
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"Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says “Come on, one drink!” You say “no thanks.” Later, he brings you a soda. “I know you said you didn’t want a drink, but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty.” For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole. He’s just being nice, right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. If you drink the drink, you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your “no.” If you say “Really, I appreciate it, but no thanks” and put the drink down and walk away from it, you’re the one who looks rude in that moment. But the fact is, you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated."
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The art of “no,” continued: Saying no when you’ve already said yes. (via 2ition)
“Why can’t you take no for an answer?” is one of the most powerful questions you can use in a social situation: suddenly, it’s your harasser’s manners on trial, not yours. Say it in the mirror. Say it to assholes. Say it a lot. Feel awesome.
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